Tuesday 17 September 2013

When love takes over..

Hello everybody!

Everybody by the age of 22 has been in love. Now love can be of various kinds. Like in love with a guy/girl, in love with a city, in love with your life, etc. Has anybody thought of the behavioral changes we go through when we're in love?

The answer is yes. Yes we notice the change but we choose to ignore. And we let the change happen. We let it define us. Once you change, you get a whole new definition of yourself. And you finally notice it when you realise that the things around you are changing too. This can be in a good or a bad way. If its good, then awesome. But if its bad, dont be sad. You'll fall in love again and you'll change again.

Lets talk about falling in love with a person. It is widely believed that you fall in love only once. I disagree. I have been in love thrice until now. And none of them was fake or an adjustment. I have been in love three times. Im looking forward to falling in love again. And thats a fact.

When in love, we make terrible decisions. We dont think before taking big steps. Because thinking involves brain activity. And when in love, all the activity is that of the heart's and other bodily parts, but not brain. 

I have made terrible decisions in my life. Top three would be because of love. Till date, my worst ever decision, which I regret even to this day, was taken by my love torrents. And I hate it. Truth is ugly but it is the way of life. And you gotta accept it.

You cannot survive without love, but you'll die without good decisions. Even if you dont die, you'll realise that a small part of you is dying inside everyday untill you have nothing left. No feelings, no love, no trust, no friends and no life. So fall in love but just dont ruin it with bad decisions. And even if you ruin it, you can change it by falling in love again.

Never give up. Never believe it over. Cause it aint over, until its over.

Goodbye. God bless.

2 comments:

  1. Very true some changes are good some are nt that a part of life cycle, but remember never to regret on any situation coz every phase of it leaves u with a good and bad experience n as time flows u evolves as a person ur today with past experience . So never ever regret instead take a lesson from that..

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