I'm in love and I'm very happy with my girlfriend. But, it's not my first relationship. I've dated girls before. Sometimes, I think about it. How am I here today? At this exact position in life. Feeling this exact emotion. It's all destiny I believe. Because, a year ago today, I wouldn't have imagined this day. I'm in a relationship. And everything seems perfect with her.
But, everything seemed perfect with my first girlfriend, and the second one too. The point is, what do we really want? I believe, we want to be happy. We need to be happy in the moment. I was happy with Snehal, I was happy with Michelle and I'm happy right now. So why do I feel like it was the wrong person before?
When people are happy, they believe everything before that moment wasn't good enough. But they're wrong. We should never hate something that made us happy in the past. I was more than happy with Snehal. But it was in the past. Today, I'm more than happy too. But that doesn't mean the past was wrong or sad. It just means I'm happy in the moment. It means I'm in peace with my past and I enjoy the moment. It means I have moved on and look forward to the future. It means I'm content and happy with what I have in the moment.
But still, there are a few questions which are unanswered. Because we can't ask anybody and because we don't want to answer it ourselves. Like everybody, I have imagined too. I have been confused too. I have been to so many beautiful places, I have enjoyed so many breathtaking views. And I realize that I have wasted all the opportunities while being in those beautiful places. I mean how many places have I ruined forever by being there with the wrong girl? I think a person has a certain allotment of beautiful places and breathtaking views per lifetime and I've used all mine up.
But as I grow older, and as my love gets mature day by day, I realize, that all those opportunities, all those breathtaking views with the wrong girls, don't count. Why? Because, a day comes when a girl walks into your life and it changes everything. She hits the reset button on your world, she makes everything new again, she makes it seem ridiculous that you ever considered settling. Every old place with her seems new, every breathtaking view you've witnessed before seems the first time, every feeling you get when she's in your arms, is delightful and heavenly.
That's love. It makes everything else seem less important. It makes you a new person. It gives you a new definition.
But, everything seemed perfect with my first girlfriend, and the second one too. The point is, what do we really want? I believe, we want to be happy. We need to be happy in the moment. I was happy with Snehal, I was happy with Michelle and I'm happy right now. So why do I feel like it was the wrong person before?
When people are happy, they believe everything before that moment wasn't good enough. But they're wrong. We should never hate something that made us happy in the past. I was more than happy with Snehal. But it was in the past. Today, I'm more than happy too. But that doesn't mean the past was wrong or sad. It just means I'm happy in the moment. It means I'm in peace with my past and I enjoy the moment. It means I have moved on and look forward to the future. It means I'm content and happy with what I have in the moment.
But still, there are a few questions which are unanswered. Because we can't ask anybody and because we don't want to answer it ourselves. Like everybody, I have imagined too. I have been confused too. I have been to so many beautiful places, I have enjoyed so many breathtaking views. And I realize that I have wasted all the opportunities while being in those beautiful places. I mean how many places have I ruined forever by being there with the wrong girl? I think a person has a certain allotment of beautiful places and breathtaking views per lifetime and I've used all mine up.
But as I grow older, and as my love gets mature day by day, I realize, that all those opportunities, all those breathtaking views with the wrong girls, don't count. Why? Because, a day comes when a girl walks into your life and it changes everything. She hits the reset button on your world, she makes everything new again, she makes it seem ridiculous that you ever considered settling. Every old place with her seems new, every breathtaking view you've witnessed before seems the first time, every feeling you get when she's in your arms, is delightful and heavenly.
That's love. It makes everything else seem less important. It makes you a new person. It gives you a new definition.
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